I happened to be logging in to a site and the captcha was “unold” – not a word, right? But it made me laugh, I got to thinking about ways to “unold” myself. I am not even going to research this one as I have plenty of ideas about how to feel younger, look younger, and essentially, not get caught in the trap of “I am too old for that”. You can “unold” yourself, I have. There are a few things to remember – you are only as old as you feel, youth is wasted on the young, and wrinkles are not wrinkles, they are experience lines. I live in Germany, where apparently once you are 50 you are relegated to the “old” category. I believe, though, that 50 is the new 30. There is no reason that age must hinder us – if we accept the premise that once we are “old” we can do no more, we can simply close the book. So how do we “unold” ourselves? Here are a few ideas for feeling younger no matter how old you are.
- Listen to the latest music – even if you are still stuck on your favorite songs from your youth
- Watch MTV – I know it hurts sometimes, but ya gotta see whats up
- Do things you loved to do as a child or teenager
- Give yourself a facial – olive oil works
- Spend more time talking with your children
- Remember what you did when you were 14, 16, 18, 21, 30 years old and do it
- Stop thinking of yourself as old, you are only as old as you feel
- Network on the Internet – Your younger friends on Facebook will let you know what is going on today
- Stop smoking
- Don’t hang out with old people unless they are young at heart
- Keep up to date on current events
- Volunteer for a cause you love
- Wear what you want to wear – Vintage works – but forget the shoulder pads
- Listen to Queen
- Play the sports you loved to play before you became a virtual couch potato
- Dance, sing, run through a pile of autumn leaves
Age is a state of mind. Feeling younger, looking younger, being younger simply require that you don’t think “old” – that you value yourself for who you are and that you accept yourself, wrinkes, gray hairs and all. If you are dealing with being relegated to the over-50 club, get over it. You can be young again, you can be forever young if you know what is going on in the world. Know that you will survive!